Covered in this guide:

locations


 

 

seasons

 

what to wear

 

the legal part

 

types of ceremonies

 

wedding suppliers

 

Imagine walking through the mountains in your muddy boots. The sun might be shining, or the rain is drizzling, but either way, this day is an adventure. You find a quiet spot to say your vows to your partner, surrounded by breathtaking scenery. Perhaps it is just the two of you or a handful of people you love around you.


In Scotland, you can get legally married almost anywhere outside with the most breathtaking backdrops, which means you aren’t limited by wedding venues or weekend dates. Whether it is the mountains, a loch, woodland, or a castle – there are many incredible locations to choose from in Scotland.



Places to elope in Scotland


Glencoe


For many, Glencoe is the heart of the Scottish highlands. While the area is popular with tourists, and with good reason, there are still many places here to find yourself alone in nature, and some are not as far off the beaten path as you might imagine. Glencoe is within a few hours drive from Glasgow and Edinburgh, making it an accessible option for those flying into the major airports.


The landscape truly does have something for everybody here, and while it looks stunning covered in winter snow or glorious in summer sunshine, my favourite season in Glencoe is Autumn. The landscape has a radiant golden hue, which adds colour to the greyest of highland days. Some popular locations to visit in Glencoe include Glencoe Lochan, Glen Etive, Steall Falls and Loch Etive.


Glencoe accommodation ideas

St Mary’s Space | Creative space for eclectic couples

Glencoe House | Luxury hotel in the highlands

Ardrhu House | A restored manor with sweeping views

Luxury Eco Cabin | Views of Ben Nevis

Peaceful Highland Home | Tranquility in the highlands



Edinburgh


Edinburgh’s skyline is defined by a mix of natural and man-made landmarks but nestled on a peak of its own, somewhere between the hills of Arthur’s Seat and the monuments of Carlton Hill, sits Edinburgh castle, which looks down onto the city streets below.


Get lost in the maze of cobbled laneways through Edinburgh’s historic stone buildings, taking in the sound of bagpipes that are often heard echoing through the streets, and in the right weather, the smell of malted barley and hops from the city’s breweries lingers through the air.


See more in my guide to getting married in Edinburgh

The cairngorms


The Cairngorms are rich with natural beauty, with still lochs, woodland, castles and whisky distilleries to explore. The ancient forests here make for a quiet and secluded ceremony spot, where you can say your vows tucked amongst the trees or by the side of a loch.


My favourite locations for a wedding in the Cairngorms include Loch an Eilein, Loch Vaa and Lochan Uaine. The Cairngorms is also blessed with many different beautiful places to stay – some of which you can get married onsite. 


Cairngorms accommodation ideas

Hidden Highland Retreats | Heritage-restored luxury properties

Killiehuntley Farmhouse | Immersive Scottish experience in a guesthouse or self-catered cottages

Glen Dye Cabins | Luxury cabins surrounded by wilderness

The Lazy Duck | Award-winning off-grid cabins

Fife Arms Hotel | Luxury boutique hotel

Scottish borders


The Scottish borders are ideal for those seeking countryside views but still a short driving distance to Edinburgh. My favourite scenery here is the rolling hills, castles, rivers and waterfalls, many of which you can enjoy with very few people around. I’m based in the Scottish Borders, and have plenty of gems to share with couples looking to get married here! ⁣


Neidpath Castle is a 14th-century tucked away gem near the town of Peebles. Aikwood Tower offers luxury comfort in a secluded setting. The majestic Borthwick Castle offers a quintessential Scottish Castle experience. All these wedding venues provide a combination of majestic interiors with stunning views of the Scottish borders on the doorstep.

Perthshire


Just over an hour's drive from Edinburgh, the area of Perthshire is ideal for those looking for a quiet, off-the-beaten-path option where you can be immersed in the countryside and nature without having to venture too far from Scotland's major cities. I love visiting the majestic woodland here, which often feels like walking through an enchanted fairytale.


The charming town of Dunkeld is a popular place to visit for the famous Aran bakery (who also do amazing wedding cakes!). Perthshire is also known for its artisan cuisine, and all of the accommodation options below are known for their delicious food and warm hospitality.


The best time to visit the area is in the Autumn months when you'll witness a spectacular display of golden colours, but if this doesn't suit, Perthshire has something to offer all year round!


Perthshire accommodation ideas

The Taybank | Serene apartments in the heart of historic Dunkeld

Guardswell Farm | Rural destination in a secluded hillside

Ballintaggart | Charming rural accommodation

Killiecrankie House | Fine dining restaurant and rooms

Assynt


Assynt is a spectacular area with lochs, waterfalls, castle ruins, rugged rocky mountains and white sandy beaches. It is located on the popular NC500 tourist driving route around Scotland. Assynt is a more remote area compared to other areas of Scotland, so it tends to be on the more quiet side, particularly outside of the Summer months. Overall there are fewer facilities in the area, but more opportunities to find yourself alone in the landscape.


Some locations worth considering for an Assynt elopement are Wailing Widows Falls, Ardvreck Castle and Achmelvich Beach. If you’re an avid hiker, Stac Pollaidh rewards you with stunning views.


Assynt accommodation ideas

Kylesku Lodges | A rustic hideout

The Albannach | 200 year old highland home


Torridon


Torridon is a hidden gem on Scotland’s West Coast. Rugged mountain tops, sometimes dusted in snow, stand tall above tranquil bays and secluded woodlands. This region is a favourite for lovers of all types of outdoor activities. Like Assynt, there are limited facilities and accommodation options here, but if you’re seeking a secluded location that is off the beaten track, Torridon is certainly a contender. Am Ploc is a tucked-away spot for a ceremony featuring the ruins of an Open Air Church.


Torridon accommodation ideas

The Net Store | Holiday home on the Applecross Peninsula

The Torridon | Luxury hotel

Shieldaig Lodge | Highland lodge retreat

Seasons


Spring & Summer

March - September


The daylight hours are long in Summer. Light starts to appear around 5am in the morning, and sunsets extend through to 10pm. The best time to take photos in Summer is early in the morning or late in the evening, when the light is softer and more flattering. Scotland transforms into a vibrant green landscape, with flowers and grass flourishing. The country is much busier with warmer temperatures and increased tourism. Carparks are more likely to be at capacity, and popular tourist locations have high numbers of people visiting daily.



Autumn

September - October


The vibrant hues of Autumn take over Scotland, making the landscape feel even more ethereal. There are misty mornings to enjoy, the daylight hours are getting shorter and the air becomes crisp. The days are best spent outside, taking in the beauty of it all, no matter the weather, and then retreating inside to a warm fire at the end of the day.



Winter

November - February


The landscape turns to a muted brown, and the temperatures continue to drop. The mountains usually have a dusting of snow on top. The daylight hours are very short, but the light is soft and beautiful to shoot in all day. I think the cold temperatures are worth embracing to have the incredible winter colours, potential snowfall, and very few tourists.

what to wear for a scotland elopement


Whatever you think the weather is going to do in Scotland, it will most likely do the opposite. The weather constantly changes, but it’s this changing weather that creates beautiful light and spectacular photos. To elope in Scotland, you need to be prepared with the right gear, be flexible, patient and ready to embrace anything.


My best piece of advice, if you want natural and spontaneous photos, is to wear an outfit you can move in comfortably. I also recommend shoes that keep your feet dry, particularly if you’re getting married in Autumn or Winter. Thermal wool base layers, wool leggings, gloves, and wool socks are all a must in the colder seasons! Be prepared with lots of warm layers and waterproof clothing so that you’re ready for anything that the unpredictable Scottish weather throws at you. Shawls and blankets are a popular choice for extra warmth over a dress and are easy to take on and off as needed.


The Tartan Blanket Co sell shawls and blankets and have a wide range of colours and styles

how to get legally married in scotland


What do you need to get legally married in Scotland? Ultimately it is a date, location, the correct paperwork, two witnesses and an authorised person to conduct your legal ceremony. The rest is up to you!

You will require two witnesses whose details need to be filled out before the day. So, how do you find two people to witness your ceremony? Luckily, your photographer can count as a witness! Other ideas include your videographer, bagpiper, florist, musician, hotel or venue staff member. Your celebrant may also be able to bring a witness, so it is worth talking to them as well.


You can read more guidance for getting married in Scotland on the National Records of Scotland website.




types of legal ceremonies


humanist ceremony


The Humanist Society of Scotland says “a humanist wedding or civil partnership lets you celebrate your day your way. Your humanist celebrant will involve you in planning and writing your ceremony, creating a ceremony that’s a true reflection of you and your partner.


It is worth noting that humanist ceremonies do not include religious components. If this is important to you, it is worth considering the other ceremony options below.


Humanist celebrants that I love working with include Claire Digance, Rona Burstow, Vivienne Hyndman, Andrew Scott, Annalese Mcdermott.



agnostic CEREMONY


Agnostic Scotland shares that their role is the following: “Our Celebrants will be delighted to work with you to co-create, write and conduct a ceremony that reflects your own wishes, beliefs and values, whether that includes a faith-based, spiritual or non-religious ethos. All words, music, readings and rituals will be chosen entirely by you.


Agnostic celebrants I recommend include Lucy Cargill, Onie Tibbitt and Andrea Taylor



interfaith CEREMONY


An interfaith ceremony can include any faith, mixed faith or no faith. You can be married indoors or outdoors and serve all people of any belief to create a unique ceremony for your day.


Hazel Jane and Gillian Robertson are both interfaith ministers based in Scotland.

scotland wedding suppliers


Here in Scotland, we have so many talented wedding suppliers in all different areas. Below are some of my favourites to work with to help you get started with your planning.


Hair/makeup

Bonny’s Wonderland

AMM team

Hannah Rose

The Madeup Team

 

Flowers

Tupelo Tree

Gloam

Ochre Botanical Studios

Wild Gorse

To a Mountain Daisy

Bothy Blooms

 

Bagpipers

Spud the Piper

Munro Bagpiper